

“Bailéro (Shepherd’s song of Auvergne hills) – Chants d’Auvergne” by Marie-Joseph Canteloube, performed by María Bayo and Orquesta Sinfonica de Tenerife (courtesy of J P Pedroso):
“The intuitive mind is a sacred gift,
And the rational mind is a faithful servant.
We have created a society that honors
The servant and has forgotten the gift.”
Albert Einstein
“Intermezzo” from “Cavalleria Rusticana” by Pietro Mascagni, performed by Hauser and the London Symphony Orchestra (courtesy of Hauser):
This week I cannot resist sharing the topic of my post with my readers. I think that you will agree it was worth taking a break from the books to find everything you didn’t know about the secret life of cows. It will make you smile – become happier in just five minutes!
I hope you will excuse me from not following the usual pattern of discussing books but this topic is too good to miss! Although as it happens, I can recommend a beguiling book “The Secret Life of Cows” by Rosamund Young.
Courtesy of BBC Reel:
It was reported that there is a new bizarre (not to me!) practice of cow hugging. Of course, it was invented as a result of the pandemic. As we were forbidden from cuddling other human beings, we began to look for comfort elsewhere. In Holland, where the practice originated, they call cow hugging “Koe knuffelen.” In the US, farms are charging anything up to $75 per cow-hugging hour.

At the Mountain Farm in New York (shown above), visitors pay to hug cows called Bella and Bonnie.

Aimee’s Farm Animal Sanctuary in Queen Creek, Arizona, also reported a boom. Owner Aimee told a reporter from the Washington Post that her nine cows, among them Moonicorn, who has only one eye and one horn, all love being cuddled by strangers. One visitor, Renee Behinfar, said that she cried when Sammy the cow lay her head in her lap and fell asleep. I suspect that I might cry too, if a 1,300 lb cow decided to have a nap on top of me, but Ms Behinfar insisted that hers were only tears of gratitude.

Scientifically, there are all sorts of biological reasons why cow hugging is good for us. It promotes positivity by boosting oxytocin, the hormone released in social bonding.
Courtesy of Kinder World:

I have empathy with all animals but unusually with cows which stems from my earlier experience when I was 15 years old. During my summer holidays, I would travel to a farm situated on top of a mountain and stay there for a few weeks every year. I loved to travel on the open carriage of the goods steam train because I could sit on the floor of an open platform and watch the passing landscape, while listening to the soothing sound of the steam and the wheels singing in unison.
The farmers, long-time friends, knew that first thing in the morning after arrival, I would take all the cows to their grazing field, and then clean up their shed. It meant washing the walls and the floor thoroughly, wiping it dry, and filling it with fresh straw. The cows would come back for milking and to the clean, straw-smelling shed. They slept well that night. I slept very well too, happily tired, and in the most comfortable bed, I have ever known. It was a big wooden bed with all the pillows and eiderdown so light and fluffy, you just wouldn’t know that they were there if you didn’t see them. There were the freshness and the faint scent of wood as the house was built of wood, although you would not realise this as the walls were rendered and painted white. The house was large and spacious, and my bedroom had the additional pleasure for me – the branches of an apple tree filling the open window.

During my stay, I learned many things about cows’ personalities, intelligence, and memory. At the farm, the cows had space and liberty, and because of this, their response was to reveal their true and lovely nature. It was obvious that they responded better because they were well looked after. I instinctively knew already that animals deserve our care, respect, and understanding, and I wasn’t surprised that the cows recognised this, and I was never hurt by anyone of them.

“Myfanwy” by Joseph Parry, performed by Sheku Kanney-Mason:
In one of my posts, I wrote about a herd of elephants who remembered the man who saved them from being killed and would come back to the compound every year on the anniversary of his death to mourn him in silence. During my holiday stay, I would witness amazing examples of my cows’ logical, practical intelligence. The point I am making here is that animals living alongside us should be regarded as sentient creatures and not some inadequate servants of human beings.

One of the things that I have noticed during my weeks of observing the cows, was that if they were given the opportunity to be able to choose what to do during the day, for instance – staying outside or coming in for shelter, or walking on grass or straw or concrete, or a choice of their food – they would always know and choose what was the best for them. Cows are as varied in temperament and intelligence as people. Some can be highly intelligent, friendly, considerate, docile, inventive, and proud, others could be not so, the main thing is to treat them as individuals.

It is a well-documented fact that animals kept in cramped unfriendly conditions, and without the ability to move freely, would be badly affected in their development and behaviour. Stress can affect animals as well as humans, with similar consequences. The most important is that stress hormones reduce the efficiency of the immune system, which compromises the natural ability to resist parasitic infections.

“Scarborough Fair (Instrumental)” (courtesy of Crysantheme1):
Cows regularly seek out plants they sense they need. They pick up blackberries, various leaves – hawthorn or willow, herbs – wild thyme and sorrel, even stinging nettles. But cows’ particular favourites are apples.


Many people assume that animals have no feelings, and they couldn’t be more wrong. It is enough to see the way cows respond to being cuddled even by strangers, let alone people they know and like. They like the companionship of other cows too and, they love their calves like we love our children.

Being so intelligent, cows can work out what to do in many circumstances and are capable to ask for help when it is needed. The companionship is very much evident between cows and sheep. When writing about many aspects of cows’ personalities I have to mention their language of communication. Cows moo for various reasons: fear, disbelief, anger, hunger, or distress. Often, when it is a question, it would be a stare, followed by a quiet moo.
It was reported that the cows who have sustained an injury will eat a large amount of willow tree leaves to relieve the discomfort. We know that origin of aspirin came from the willow tree. They will eat the leaves for as many days as they need and then they stop. Another proof, if one was even needed, how intelligent cows are. Those who live with cows will confirm that part of their communication skills is the use of stare. By persistent staring at the person whose attention they want to attract, they get the reward, it could be food, especially apples, or some help with a problem in the field.

I have mentioned before that cows have a very good memory; they remember us as individuals, and that includes our faces. It is accurate as they notice our height, the way we walk, and even our voice. I noticed the same thing with all the wildlife in my garden, there even wasps and bumblebees come and ‘talk’ to me, not only as a greeting but when they need more sugar on the plate I provide for them in late summer. And, no I am not on ‘something’ or hallucinating, this is a fact, just ask Dr Dolittle. I am joking but only about the doctor, not about my close friendship with my wildlife. But back to the wonderful creatures, that the cows are. They recognised me, even after not seeing me for a year, and remembered that I would clean their house better than anyone else.

“Chasing Sheep Is Best Left To Shepherds” by Michael Nyman:
As sheep are good companions to cows, I need to say that they too have accurate memory. It might seem to be an unnecessary thing to say that all animals respond to kindness, but as not all humans do (“No good deed goes unpunished”, Oscar Wilde), I can, from my experience, vouch for that kindness to any creature is returned tenfold. This is why cuddling is so much appreciated by cows. It is useful to always have a small brush to hand to do some grooming during this bonding session, it will be appreciated. Cows are not colour blind, so they recognise their young among many by looking for the one that, firstly, is the same colour, then on close inspection use their sense of smell. Their sense of smell is used in many ways in their daily life, but one thing is certain – cows don’t like anyone wearing perfume. The subtle changes in head movement, the tightening of the neck muscles, or relaxing, all are significant signs of the cow’s mood or intentions. Head is used in their communication to greet, accept, and recognise another, a new member of their group.

Please allow me to digress and finish on another positive benefit. Scientists proved that listening to birds singing or chirping not only boosted physical health but also mental wellbeing. Birdsong can have striking health advantages by combating stress and annoyance. The research looked at recordings from 251 sites across 66 US national parks and found that tuning into nature can decrease pain, improve mood and enhance cognitive performance. One of the scientists, Dr Rachel Buxton said: “The pandemic has emphasised the importance of nature for human health. As traffic has declined during quarantine, many people have connected with soundscapes in a whole new way, noticing the relaxing sounds of birds. How remarkable that these sounds are also good for our health. These sounds are beautiful. They deserve our protection.” The findings were published in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.

I keep my Alexa switched on with a camera showing the back garden, and the sound of birds singing is so enjoyable that my writing seems to flow, and that is why so many readers like it!

“In Paradisum” from “Requiem” Opus 48 VII. by Gabriel Fauré, performed by Choir of King’s College, Cambridge (courtesy of KingsCollegeChoir):


You have done cows a great service today Joanna. Growing up on a farm as I did, I had many interactions with cows, horses, pigs and sheep. Once they get to know you and you get to know them, you can see distinct personalities and tendencies and cows will come for a hug or a scratch. That is why I find it so strange that one of the main cause of hiking injuries and deaths in the U.K. is from cows. I walked through a herd on a New Zealand hike without incident, while my wife urged me to be cautious. Happy Thursday Joanna. Allan
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Thank you so much, Allan, for your uplifting comments! You are right, there is no reason for people blaming cows, unless they do something stupid. This post is a journey into the past and it reminded me how wonderful it was to be young, and fearless. Thank you again, Allan, your kind words are much appreciated!
Joanna
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What an enjoyable post! And I agree with you about the cows and birds (and all animals). I don’t think most of us take the time to consider that “they” have feelings and personalities also. I don’t have experience with cows (or any farm animal), but I had two cats during my life. And each had very different personalities and ways of communicating with me. Thanks for the great post!
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Thank you, Diana, for the wonderfully thoughtful comments, which are very much appreciated!
Joanna x
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Another wonderful post, it should be on the school curriculum! Thank you, Joanna. 🤗❤️😊
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Thank you, Ashley, for your wonderful comments, which are greatly appreciated!
Joanna
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Excellent essay! I now know much more about cows and sheep than before. I would like to hug a cow, but I don’t think there’s any place near me where I could do that.
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Thank you, Neil, for your lovely comments, which are very much appreciated! Thank you for making me laugh!
Joanna
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Another great post,Joanna, on cows showcasing your love & passionate nature towards all living beings especially for the ones who have limited capabilities of communication! As you have connected to them through “language of hearts”, you mostly know their sufferings & expectations from us human beings! Being “humane” unlocks a bond with each other alongwith communication skills!Here we regard & respect Cow as our mother! Cow is a gentle and the quite friendy animal, doesn’t harm anybody & everyone feels like loving cuddling !You have beautifully depicted this through your video with cow & a hen. You have very well explained as to why people pay for cuddles: the money allows the cows good life, and they are free not to be with someone!I sincerely thank for the bestowing us with this learning experience punctuated with nice videos & images, Joanna !Namaste !
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Thank you so much, Dhirendra, for your wonderfully analytical comments, which are deeply appreciated! Namaste!
Joanna
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My pleasure 😃Thank you for providing me with an opportunity to respond on Cows whom we love ❤️,care & pray akin to our mothers 🙏
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Thank you, Dhirendra, and you are more than welcome!
Joanna
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Thank you, Joanna, for resharing this beautiful article with such thoughtful details and heart-touching comments. It truly deserves to be read again and again. I really enjoyed the part on holy cows and the idea of cow cuddling.
As a child, I often wrote essays on the theme “Cow is our mother”—a sentiment deeply rooted in our culture, where cows are revered and worshipped on many occasions. It’s fascinating to see how, across the world today, people are finding comfort and peace in simply cuddling cows.
Personally, whenever I see one, I feel an instant sense of gentleness in her eyes, and I’m drawn to touch her. Truly, a cow is among the most friendly, harmless beings, as beautifully shown in one of the videos you shared.
Traditionally, people would always keep at least one cow for fresh, pure milk and for cow dung used as natural manure. Sadly, the practice of injecting oxytocin into cows to increase milk yield has replaced those more natural, caring methods.
I still remember how my mother would set aside two or three rotis while cooking, and along with jaggery, she would feed them daily to a cow. That cow, in turn, would come to our house gate exactly at five in the evening, and if no one was outside, she would moo and knock on the door with her horns. Such was her intelligence and such a touching memory of trust and bond with her.
Your personal experiences, especially your visit to a farm, made the article even more relatable. I also appreciate the way you shared why your writings connect so well with readers. Thank you once again, Joanna, for reposting this piece with such meaningful images and clippings. Much appreciated!
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Thank you so much, dear Kaushal, for finding time to read and comment on my post! I knew that you will like it because I remember your beloved and wise mother having befriended a cow and fed her each day. Thank you for your wonderful comments, which made my day!
Joanna
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PS. Your wonderful comments, Kaushal, have to be read several times to appreciate how special they are, and I cannot find enough words to thank you for lifting my spirits!
Joanna
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It’s truly my pleasure, dear Joanna, to go through such beautifully crafted posts. I appreciate your graciousness. You’re welcome, always.
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Thank YOU, Kaushal!
Joanna
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Another excellent post, Joanna, about cows.
I found it very rich and interesting, and, as always, it shows your love for all living things.
I don’t think most of us consider that animals have feelings and personalities, too. I have no experience with cows, but I’ve always had dogs and cats, each with their own character.
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Another excellent post, Joanna, about cows.
I found it very rich and interesting, and, as always, it shows your love for all living things.
I don’t think most of us consider that animals have feelings and personalities, too. I have no experience with cows, but I’ve always had dogs and cats, each with their own character.
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Thank you, dear Luisa, for your wonderfully thoughtful comments, which are very much appreciated! You are right, all animals, just like people, have different personalities.
Joanna
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Thanks a lot for this kind reply, my dearest Joanna 💖
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You are more than welcome, dearest Luisa!
Joanna x
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Well, this made me smile, Joanna. Honestly, maybe the cows have had it right all along – Just eat, rest, love, repeat. LOL
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Thank you, Ritish, for your wonderfully thoughtful comments, which I greatly admire!
Joanna
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Fabulous story. Animal hugs do make us happy!
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Thank you so much, Monica, for your thoughtful comments, which are greatly appreciated!
Joanna
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Interesting and thought-provoking. In short, this text is a call to reconnect with what is natural, instinctive, and essential. To see animals not as “servants” of humans, but as conscious, sentient beings deserving of respect. And also, perhaps, a reminder that the world can be a much kinder place if we learn to look (and listen) more attentively and sensitively.
Have a wonderful day, dear Joanna. 🤗👏✨
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Thank you, Lincol, for your lovely and thoughtful comments, which are greatly appreciated!
Joanna
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